Tips for a safe / fun
is one of the best ways to meet people online. We provide a safe environment for you to
socialize online with fellow members.
Your personal information will always be kept confidential (Address,
telephone numbers, email details etc). We have an internal mail system so
other members do not require or have access to your real email
read the following safety guidelines, we have provided to help you
to have a safe fun online dating experience.
When you create a
profile, your email address is kept confidential. You do not have to
provide pictures of yourself, describe your job, basically anything that would
aid someone in identifying you. When you meet people online through our
site, you only have to disclose the information about yourself that you wish
others to know.
The other benefit to
making acquaintances over the Internet is that you are in control, you do not
have to arrange to meet anybody until you are comfortable with that
person and you also get to chose if, when or where you meet.
Whatís the difference
between online / offline dating
Online dating is a
relatively new way of people meeting each other. It is very easy to feel that you have
connected and become good friends with other people online within a very short
period of time. This could be a
good thing but can also be a bad thing.
The most important thing to remember is that as with any relationship you
know exactly what you are looking for and never progress through the different
stages of dating until you are comfortable to do so.
Never give out your
personal details (address, home telephone numbers etc) until YOU feel it is safe
to do so, especially in the early days of your contact. (If you are being harassed to give out
such information by someone then you are probably wise not to do
Please remember that
you can use the internal private mail system to keep in contact with the new
contacts that you have made online.
There is no need for you to feel that there is an urgency for you giving out
your private information.
When adding photoís to
your profile, always make sure that it is you in the photo and the profile you
have created is true to you. There
is no point in trying to be someone you are not if you are serious about finding
When using the mail and
chat facilities you are free to flirt/ chat about what ever you want. Try not to discuss / make promises about
things that should you eventually meet, you would feel uncomfortable doing or
Meeting someone for the
Make sure that
before you agree to meet anyone
that you have all the facts about them and you are confident that they have been
honest with you (if you have any doubts then you should ask yourself are you
ready to meet just yet). Always tell someone where, when and who you are going
to see. Agree to meet only in a public place and make sure your date knows
this. Make sure that the person you
are going to meet knows that you are going to have to check in with a friend,
and never agree to meet anywhere or do anything that makes you feel
uncomfortable. Even if you feel that you love someone, doing something that
makes you feel uncomfortable will only cause problems in the relationship over
the long run.
Here are some
important things to remember:-
Things that should
automatically raise alarms are requests for financial assistance (money for
bills, help with travel costs etc). Requests for revealing photos
Never get someone to
pick you up from your home or meet a person at their home for the first date,
always meet for the first time in a public place.
travelling to meet
someone, always make your own travel and accommodation arrangements. (This way
you only have to disclose where you are staying if you feel it safe to do
Remember that although
you may have spoken over the telephone or chat online, when you meet a person
for the first time, they are still a stranger.
Always remember to use
your common sense, if you feel uncomfortable doing something then itís probably
best not to do it. Stand firm and
donít be pushed into doing anything you do not want to do.
takes online friendships/ dating seriously.
Should you feel that someone is not using the services provided on this
site appropriately then please
All the best and good luck
in your search for a date, remember have fun but be careful and don't
forget your safety is in your hands! Common sense is always the best